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Happy ThanksGiving!

This song is sad but absolutely beautiful...

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If I die young bury me in satin
Lay me down on a bed of roses
Sink me in the river at dawn
Send me away with the words of a love song
oh oh oh oh

Lord make me a rainbow, I’ll shine down on my mother
She'll know I’m safe with you when she stands under my colors, oh and
Life ain't always what you think it ought to be, no
ain't even grey, but she buries her baby

The sharp knife of a short life, well
I’ve had just enough time

If I die young bury me in satin
Lay me down on a bed of roses
Sink me in the river at dawn
Send me away with the words of a love song

The sharp knife of a short life, well
I’ve had just enough time

And I’ll be wearing white when I come into your kingdom
I’m as green as the ring on my little cold finger
I’ve never known the lovin' of a man
But it sure felt nice when he was holding my hand
There’s a boy here in town says he’ll love me forever
Who would have thought forever could be severed by

The sharp knife of a short life, well
I’ve had just enough time

So put on your best boots and I’ll wear my pearls
What I never did is done

A penny for my thoughts, oh no I’ll sell them for a dollar
They're worth so much more after I’m a gonner
And maybe then you’ll hear the words I been singin’
Funny when you're dead how people start listenin’

If I die young bury me in satin
Lay me down on a bed of roses
Sink me in the river at dawn
Send me away with the words of a love song
oh oh

The ballad of a dove
Go with peace and love
Gather up your tears, keep ‘em in your pocket
Save them for a time when your really gonna need 'em oh

The sharp knife of a short life, well
I’ve had just enough time

So put on your best boots and I’ll wear my pearls

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BEFORE & AFTER

A MOTHER IS SILL A WIFE, A WOMAN, AND SHOULD HAVE THOSE DAYS WHEN SHE CAN PUT ON EVEN JUST A LITTLE BIT OF MAKE UP AND FEEL STUNNING IN HER OWN SKIN. WE GO FROM HAVING A LIFE GROWING INSIDE TO NOT THE EXACT BODY AS BEFORE. NO, THIS IS NOT A NEGATIVE THING, JUST A SIMPLE FACT OF LIFE. I ALWAYS TAKE PICTURES OF MY DAUGHTER, OR MY HUSBAND AND MY DAUGHTER...I HAVEN'T TAKEN PICTURES OF JUST ME WHEN I'M FEELING GOOD...SO YESTERDAY, I FINALLY HAD A MOMENT OF CONFIDENCE IN MYSELF. EVERY WOMAN NEEDS THAT!

PrOuD pArEnTs

The months just keep flying by! But we enjoy Every moment!

But why?

I really want to go get my hair done, get a pedicure, and buy new make up, clothes for myself and my daughter, and a hair crimper, you know, all those things that make a girl feel pampered and good about herself. I want to be able to travel with my family, and do fun things together. But why is it that to survive in this economy, you have to cut down to almost the bare essentials? I stopped getting my nails done, I don't buy coffee's and teas everyday anymore, I save where I can...yet, I don't feel like it made that big of a difference. Its sad.

These days, you can't do all the things you want. We work so hard and all the income goes towards surviving...we cant even save anymore. Why do so many house holds have both parents working, sometimes 2 jobs, just to get by? This economy sucks, and I don't understand why. I don't think its necessary to take so much money from the people. I don't want to get into politics, but I just don't agree with the way things are. I enjoy my life, I love my family, but I think things could be a lot less stressful, I think people could relax and spend quality time with their family if $money$ wasn't such a problem. I know I'm not the only person who feels this way, so why don't things change?

We're Movin'!

I'm so excited! Our crappy neighbors, you remember him, right?...the guy who backed up into our apartment?...well, HE MOVED OUT!

That's right, he is gone, no more 2am parties, no more blocking me in with the millions of visitors he has parking in the driveway where they don't belong, and the best part, we get to move into that apartment which is bigger and doesn't have stairs.

I don't know if I wrote about that, but when Kylie was about 2 months old, I took a small fall down the stairs with her in my arms...it was TERRIFYING! So, I told the hubby, I want outta here! He agreed and said we should start looking. Unfortunately, I have very high standards. I was being picky, basically saying, I want to stay on this side of town, and I want to keep our garage, washer dryer hookups, I really like having the big "handicap" shower, and I don't want stairs. So that was pretty much, the three stories in the townhouses where we live, I want that for our rate. Ha! Right! That simple eh? Well, apparently, wish granted...that simple.

My husband noticed the U-Haul in the driveway, and called our landlord immediately...nonchalantly asking, "Do you have anything without stairs available?" Of course our landlord told him about the apartment literally right next door...how much...only $75 more than we are currently paying, and we get, a larger garage, larger backyard, an extra room, and a fireplace (which honestly I would rather NOT have, but its okay).

We did a walk thru, and knowing how that guy was living, I expected gross...however, I wasn't expecting DISGUSTING which it was. That place had fairly new carpet, you could tell, but it was THRASHED...the sink (side without a garbage disposal) was filled with meat and beans or something, the counters thrashed, floors filthy, doors broken, and the fridge, stove, and microwave...YUCK!

Our landlord loves us, and told the Realtor that helps him out while he is out of state, "Take care of them, make sure everything is perfect for them...if the carpet needs replacing, you have my permission." I LOVE THAT OLD GUY! He is awesome. So it may be a couple weeks before we actually get to move in, but I'm not complaining AT ALL. I get everything I wanted...well, almost, I really didn't want to stay on this half paved street, simply because of the way people drive on it. They think, even in their ghetto ass POS cars, they can drive on the wrong side of the road to avoid driving in the dirt...and if you don't move over (into the parked cars on the curb), your the ass hole. I have numerously come close to a head on collision because of the condition of our street...but we have dealt with it for 3 years, I don't mind giving the bird to inconsiderate drivers for the next 3 or so. *laughing*

Today...

Today is a special day in the Griswold house.

Two years ago, my husband proposed to me. We were in Bakersfield Mall just about to head home, when he wanted to stop and get something to drink at Jamba Juice. While waiting in line, he says to me, "Lets get you a ring." He didn't make it official till about 10 o'clock 08/08/08. The date wasn't planned, this was complete spontaneity. And so began the greatest years of my life. I honestly feel that my life didn't truly begin till I met Matthew.

Today, our beautiful daughter is a quarter of a year old. That's right...3 months has passed already.

So I say again...the Griswold's...loving today! Everyday is special, no doubt about it, but today, I'm reminded why I feel so happy, why I'm so grateful.

I love you Matthew & Kylie! More than three inches!

Hypocrite

I'm such a hypocrite...

I chose to delete a blog I posted this morning. I was bored, and I decided to post a blog that was encouraged by another persons blog. Not to go into great detail, but after letting it sit all day, *laughing*, I realised that I did exactly what I complain about other people doing.

I got involved in a complete strangers business...I put my nose where it really doesn't belong, regardless of weather her blog is public or private. I put my two cents in, because I'm a very opinionated person, and probably didn't make any difference after doing so. I don't like when people feel the need to fight with me because I don't agree with how they feel about a topic...yet, I did that just today. How immature of me to do such a thing, and yes, I admit that I shouldn't have. Unfortunately you cant go back in time and have a do over moment...so life goes on, but I wanted to own up to my mistake.

If my family read how I felt about my baby shower, they would have gotten the wrong impression of how truly grateful I was and am for what they have done for us...I would be absolutely mortified. I don't want anyone to think that I am a selfish or spoiled brat...that's not the type of person I am.

We bought a lot of the necessities for our daughter...her high chair, car seat, and stroller as soon as we found out we were pregnant...we purchased those items because they are some of the pricey necessities, and we didn't expect our friends and family to spend that kind of money on gifts. After our baby showers, we saw how many clothes we got...and felt unprepared...disappointment was the wrong word to use before.

Registries are meant to help friends and family out with gift ideas. Its there to tell people what you need...so its understandable when pregnant women get frustrated because no one bought from their registry...when all you get is clothes. Its especially hard for first time mommies because you don't know what you are actually going to need, so when you don't get things you need from experienced moms, you feel like you don't have to proper tools to care for you child as soon as they are born.

Now, with all that being said, I saw a comment someone wrote that said people shouldn't have kids if they cant afford it or don't know what they are doing...to you, I must say, no one knows how to be a parent until they experience it first hand. And money always seems like an issue, but you make sacrifices and make it work out. A friend of mine said her husband had to pick up a second job to pay for some of the things they needed...she wasn't complaining about the fact that no one got these items for her, she was stating how they, like Matt and I, were saving up to buy a house and their savings was tapped out after they purchased the things they didn't get from their shower, and because he had to work more hours, they didn't get to spend as much time as any happy couple would like to spend with eachother...again...you make sacrifices. So bashing someone and saying they shouldn't have a baby if they cant afford it...in my opinion was out of line. There are worse things a parent can do or say to make them unfit to have a child...and I see those people all the time...pick your battles...and Ill pick mine.

A Quote to Live by...

"Never Lie, Steal, Cheat, or Drink. But If You Must Lie, Lie in the Arms of the One You Love. If You Must Steal, Steal A Kiss. If You Must Cheat, Cheat Death. and If You Must Drink, Drink in the Moments That Take Your Breath Away."

Independence Day!

Happy
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Our Family Gathering

We had the best visit ever. I did nothing but smile and laugh the whole time. It warms my heart to see how loved our daughter is. I don't have much family (biologically). My dad was born when my grandma was 40, so my uncles are quite a bit older or deceased, meaning so is my cousin...older not dead and yes, only one cousin. My moms side of the family is so spread out around the country that I don't know them very well if at all. And a couple of them...well lets just say its complicated. Basically what I'm saying is I don't know what is like to have such a BIG and close family...but I always wanted that. When Matthew and I started dating, I was worried what his parents would think of me because of my previous relationship...the way it ended isn't something I'm proud of, but I was up front and honest with them. Being the wonderful people they are (which I of course already knew because of the amazing son they raised) they didn't judge me, in fact the called me their daughter after only months of being apart of their lives. I was in the family photo...and it wasn't awkward...I felt welcomed into their family. Now that we have Kylie...I am so happy she has what I always wanted for my child. The love she has from everyone...its beautiful. We had such an enjoyable family gathering.

Chad, Scott, & Matthew...I cant believe how much they really do look alike. *giggle*

3 years in L♥ve

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Although most people stop celebrating their dating anniversary after getting married...I still think its a special day!

♥

Happy Father's Day

Matthew,

You are such an amazing father.

You brighten Kylie's day with just the sound of

your loving voice.

It warms my heart when I

watch you two play together.

Your the best daddy & husband in the world.

XoXo!

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& To my daddy,

I love you and Miss you!

Hope you have a wonderful Father's Day!

✮

Happy Father's Day to all you daddy's out there.

Doo Dee Doo Dee Daaaaaa...Humm Hummm....

Alright Mr. Griz...Mrs. Griz and Baby Griz are bored

and we want you to wake up and play! *laughing*.

I changed a few things on my baby blog...now I think I'm going to play with this one...I'm so bored! *giggle*.

I could shower while Kylie is sleeping and get ready for the day, maybe go browse around the stores, but then I might end up spending $money$, and we cant be doing that...so its probably best I stay inside...I just feel so lazy.

My Perfect Family!

Lykins Photography
http://lykinsphotography.blogspot.com/

Partylite

Saturday, July 10th, 2010 @ 4 o'clock pm, my house

I am hosting a Partylite & Twin Sisters Gourmet Party.

We will be serving snacks, and depending on the weather might BBQ some burgers. Its going to be lots of fun. Feel free to bring a guest to join the fun and check out all the neat candles Partylite is offering this season with awesome specials going as well. Summer time is here...brighten up your home with some new fun colors and scents. Also, you'll get to meet baby Kylie *wink* that's just a perk. If you are unable to attend, but would still like to browse/purchase, I have order forms and catalogs.

Also, FYI, I'm thinking about becoming a Partylite consultant...so if you are interested in holding a party of your own, let me know.

Summer Vacation Here We Come!

☀ Our family in Alaska is coming to visit in 9 days! I'm so excited! They get to meet Kylie and we are all going to Pismo Beach! ☁ I cant wait! Kylie's first trip to the beach and we get to hang out with the family. Everyone is going, my mother in law, both brother in laws and their families, me, Matthew, and Kylie! Its going to be a blast. We need this trip so bad! My mother in law bought beach stuff for all the grand kids, including Kylie. She got her a swim suit, sunglasses, sandals, and a pail with a shovel. So cute! ☁

Just for the fun of it...

kittle Tate the Rainbow!

Dont forget about my baby blogspot...

http://mrmrsgbabymakesthree.blogspot.com

"HUBBY SHOOTS A WEDDING"

EXTRA EXTRA READ ALL ABOUT IT!

Check out the newest pictures

http://griswoldphotography.blogspot.com/2010/06/griffen-wedding.html

ATTENTION SUSANVILLE-IANS:

House For Sale...540 Wildwood Way in Susanville, CA...if you know of anyone looking for a house to buy in a great neighborhood located in Meadowview School zone, please let them know. It was built in 1962, 2 bed 1 bath (3rd bedroom has been converted to an office, however can be easily converted back to a bedroom), wood burning stove, 1300 sq. ft. single car garage and side yard gravel driveway (ideal for a fifth wheel), washer/dryer hook ups, huge fenced in backyard equip with a shed. The kitchen has extensive cabinet space, a drop-in electric stove, dishwasher, built in microwave and oven, and dinning area. Lot size is 1/4 acre. $165,000. Some minor renovations are currently in progress (bathroom and kitchen).

Although this home is a little outdated, it has so much potential. It is a raised sub floor, so re-routing is a breeze. Its in a great neighborhood with school zone...perfect for a family.

For more information and pictures visit:

http://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/540-Wildwood-Way_Susanville_CA_96130_1119209647

I love my Beep Beep!

That's right...I call my car alarm Beep Beep, and I heart it.

Before we had it installed, my doors didn't automatically lock when I started the car, and unlock when I turn the car off. Now, they do, and for some reason I think its the coolest thing ever...*giggle*...yes, simple minds like simple things *wink*.

So, any who, no more broken windows...or no more stolen items at least.

I'm very pleased!

Cleaning Bee...

I love these cleaning products. Greatest inventions Ever! *giggle*

Facebook Posts

I find that I rarely ever "Like" my friends status's. Most of them post things that make their lives seem so miserable. I feel bad for them when I read these negative postings. However, I was sooo happy to click "Like" and leave pleasant comments on most of the posts today. Everyone seems to be optimistic and positive. I ♥ it...I wish it was like this more often. Obviously not everyone is going to be upbeat all the time, lol, life has rough patches here and there, that's normal, and I'm not saying I never vent, because believe me, as I post my rants in blogs, I do as well on Facebook...but its always nice to read when things are going really really well, even if its something as simple as "I just got a coffee, and it was delicious and the service was great!" It may not seem like much, but that could be the start of a really good day, if you keep thinking positive from then on. Just my observation. *Smile*

From Start to Baby...

Our walk together...

☆Where it all began...

☆First home together (after the car of course)...

☆Our 1 year anniversary in Pismo...

☆Engagement 08/08/08...

☆Holidays and special events together...

☆Our Wedding...

☆Our Honeymoon...

☆2 year dating anniversary...

☆Our baby girl

How Awesome Is That!? *sarcasm*

Yesterday morning, my husband went out to the truck to go pick up the yard sale signs because it was raining, so we didn't have our second day of the yard sale...and what did her find? Some loser busted out the driver side window to steal a hundred dollar GPS...was it worth it? NO! Im not upset about the fact that they took the GPS, Im pissed that there are such heartless idiots out there that do things like this...and worse. Its not right, and I dont understand why, or what they are thinking.

After having our neighbor back into our apartment and bust the wall, and now this...I'm thinking its definitely time to move...this was a safe neighborhood, but now, I'm not so sure. I feel like with Kylie here and these things happening, we have been violated and I cant help but think what could happen. We are safe, and I'm so thankful for that, but these little things could become big problems. I hate people who steal and vandalize. Do you have any morals? What kind of person can do bad things and still sleep at night...and to see that there is a spot for a car seat...obviously this is a family...why would you do that?!

When we called to have the window replaced, the guy said, "Let me guess, someone broke in...Its been happening a lot around town." So its not just us...a lot of people are being violated and feeling uneasy. Life is not always fair, but I'm so glad that we are still safe...I hope the crime settles down soon...no one deserves to feel this way.

ATTENTION CRESTVILLIANS!!!

SATURDAY 5/22 & SUNDAY 5/23

6AM-12PM

TIRED OF THE CLUTTER...NEAT STUFF FOR REALLY GOOD DEALS!

L♥ve L♥ve L♥ve

With my husband home, our daughter here...I'm on cloud 9. We are so proud of our little miracle. Matthew has been so wonderful...he is my hero...but even hero's need to catch some z's. While in labor with Kylie, he went 3 days running on only a few hours of sleep. He was bound and determined to do everything for me and Kylie. He wanted everything to be perfect, and for me not to have to worry. Finally, he is catching up, and we are getting back into a routine...slightly different routine, but none the less *wink*.

So, this is my world...so much love under this one little roof.

I'm s♥ lucky!

Oh My Goodness...

Its May 6th...

Hopefully today is the day...

if not, we hope to meet our beautiful creation

by the end of this weekend.

*Everyday is Husband Day*

...and ever, more than three inches! XoXoXo

Yes, Ill take one order of maturity and a side of common sense please...

OH MY F'ING GOD! You all remember that idiot neighbor we have that likes to throw loud ass parties at 2:30 in the morning...same guy just straight backed his freakin' truck into our apartment @ 4am this morning...shook the entire building...and scared the shit out of us. Matthew was getting ready for work downstairs and I was upstairs half asleep. He told me not to go outside, but I wanted to know what the hell was going on...the guy who actually lives there "said" (I quote that because I think he is full of it...he was probably the one driving drunk and to save his own ass he threw his friend under the bus...or truck [no punt intended]) that because he was drunk, he "let his buddy drive and he doesn't know how to drive for shit" but who backs a small truck into a building and that hard??? They literally CRACKED my wall...busted the corner of the outside stucco. REALLY!?!? I'm tired of immature adults being irresponsible...IT DOESN'T JUST AFFECT YOU ASS HOLES!!! Imagine how this world would run without people like that? So much smoother and happier, I'm sure. Mistakes are one thing, but this is just plain stupid. Thankfully no one was hurt, the damage done to our apartment is repairable...but you still cant help but throw out some "what if's" because things could have ended up a whole lot worse...and that just pisses me off. Probably should have called the cops, but I was still kinda half asleep and more worried that no one was hurt...now that I'm awake and looking at the damage they caused due to their arrogance...I'm livid!

♥ Ladybug ♥

http://griswoldphotography.blogspot.com

To my daddy:

However old your getting...Gramps....LOL.

We love you and miss you! I hope you have a great birthday. *muah*

How WonDerFul is my husband...

♥ I didn't sleep very well this morning, woke up with a lot of pain in my left side and ribs...so it cut a couple hours off my good night sleep, so by the time I woke up, it was 8 o'clock. ♥

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♥ When I got out of bed and came downstairs, I smelt food, thinking it was just the pot roast we planned for dinner, I got a bowl out of the cupboard to get cereal for breakfast when I finally realized, he was also making breakfast (Pancakes & Bacon). He is so amazing. ♥

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♥ While cooking, he was on the phone with his parents (speakerphone) and I could hear them talking about our little girl. They are such proud grandparents...almost as proud as Matthew is to be a daddy *wink*. Anyway, then my mother in law asked if he was cooking, she said, "Chad and Scott cook meals, how come your dad doesn't cook for me? *laugh* You boys have some blessed women." I couldn't agree with her more. My in laws raised some great sons, and I'm so happy I snagged me a good one. Its rare to find, that's for sure...I must have done something good to deserve so much. ♥

Happy 4th Birthday!

Happy Birthday Jorja Lee!

My baby sister is growing up so fast!

My Husbands Hobby...

New pictures:

http://griswoldphotography.blogspot.com/2010/04/ashlee-grif.html

Happy Easter!

Eggs

April

Spring

Toddlers

Excitement

Rabbits

Having my husband home....

...is the best feeling ever. I believe that a little time apart brings a man and woman closer...but 2 months (!?)...that was a little extreme *giggle*. However, now that its all said and done, I feel that even though we were already so close and happy together, we are that much closer and happier because we know how much we missed each other while we were apart. Not saying that I want this to happen on an annual basis, lol, but definitely not regretting where our lives have been taking us. We have gone through so much together already (not that I have to tell you if you have read prior blogs) and now we are having a baby girl. Its amazing. 4 years ago, if you told me that I would be marrying this man and starting a family with him, I would have giggled and said, that would be so cool, but I don't think I'm his type *sad face*. Now here I stand, Mrs. Griswold, soon to be a mother...wow! I love how that all sounds. He is the most amazing man I have ever met, and although some may say it, I don't know if most actually mean it...but I don't, for a second, take him for granted. I know what it feels like to have settled and not truly be happy. No, my past relationship was not abusive, it just wasn't happy and honest. With Matthew...100% purity! A girl just simply could not ask for more.

XoXo

WeLcOmE ApRiL

1 More Wake Up!

So, tomorrow...TOTALLY GOING TO SAN DIEGO! Thats right, the time has finally arrived! If you havent been following, Im going down to San Diego tomorrow evening because Friday morning, my husband graduates the academy! I'm so proud of his achievements. He is so adorable, here I am proud of how hard he has worked to be able to provide for our family long term with this career move, and he doesn't even feel that accomplished. He said that he is proud to have his two best girls walk up on the stage to pin his badge on. He has been talking non-stop about me and our little Kylie girl. How adorable is that? He is so proud to be a father and husband...I'm so proud to be his wife and carry our daughter. HE IS AMAZING! Friday evening we will head home. I'm off the whole weekend so we get to spend quality time together. We don't know what hours he will be working, but it doesn't matter to me...he is coming home! I love you Sparky...and I'm soooo proud of you!

2 Days To Go!!!

Yeah, I'm super oober excited. In just 2 days, I will be down in San Diego. I'm going to stay the night with my husband on on Friday morning, he is going to GRADUATE! We will be home Friday night...and the academy will Officially be over! I get my husband back....AHHHHH!

Yesterday was my first day of training at work...I felt like I didn't accomplish much because it was a crazy day and they didn't really have a chance to teach me...hopefully today will be more productive for me. I don't like just sitting around feeling in the way or lazy.

Happy Birthday to my Handsome Husband

♪♫♪Happy Birthday to You♪♫♪
♪♫♪Happy Birthday to You♪♫♪
♪♫♪Happy Birthday Dear Maa-theew♪♫♪
♪♫♪Happy Birthday to You! ♪♫♪

*I LoVe YoU*

LUCKY GREEEEN!

Weather your drinking a frosty GREEN beer or not...Be Safe!

;o)