Sunday, April 19, 2009

This is what wine, a few friends, and a Saturday night will do...

So, yesterday, I went to a purse party that Elizabeth threw. Then at about 6pm we went to the wine walk. I got 2 new wine glasses, one from Identity Salon and one from Kool Threads (which has the Foxx logo all over it in green...its awesome). This year it didn't seem like very many businesses participated. I got a phone call from Identity Salon saying that I won the basket they were raffling...I'm so excited, I never win things like that. After the wine walk we came to our house and BBQ'd some pork chops and had some pasta and corn...it was delicious. Danny and Sue showed up and we drank some more wine and played Apples to Apples and Cranium. When I say we drank some wine I mean we had like 5 large bottles of wine...and well....take a look for yourself....

Saturday, April 18, 2009

FOR SALE!!!

I'm selling a few wedding things. Weather you are getting married or you have a friend getting married I have some great stuff for very reasonable prices. If you are interested in anything, please call me @ 760-793-6444.


I have:


8Giant Decorative Martini Glasses originally $22.00 a pc. selling for $5.00 a pc.


8Medium/Average Martini Glasses originally $2.00 a pc. selling for $1.00 a pc.


8Small Decorative Martini Glasses originally $1.00 a pc. selling for .50 a pc. or package deal price $40.00 OBO




A Rhinestone Comb Tiara, Style 4596-0142 silver, original price $99.00, selling for $20.00 OBO



An elbow length, double layer white veil with crystal beaded edges, style 530WHITE, original price $149.00, selling for $30.00 OBO




A white strapless wedding dress...it has been worn and needs to be dry cleaned, its in great condition, beautiful embroidery and bead work, very long gorgeous train, size 4, Michelangelo Style T8589 David's Bridal. Garment bag included. Original Price $699.00, Selling for $150.00 OBO




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Train

Friday, April 17, 2009

I Love You Daddy!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY!
You old man you...hehe...I miss you so much and cant wait to see you April 29th-May 3rd.
Have a wonderful birthday.
Wish I could be there.
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♥Love always your baby-doll♥

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Mobile Blogging/Baby Talk

I know, I know, I'm a blogging whore, but I just recently figured out that you can send blogs from your mobile phone. My goodness they think of EVERYTHING. Hahaha.
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Anyways, Matthew and I have finally decided on a boy and a girl name. Don't get the wrong idea here, we aren't pregnant yet nor are we trying right now...but we do want to have children, I'm hoping for one boy and one girl, and we want to be ready. I don't want to be pregnant and hormonal trying to negotiate and settle on names. I had a girl name picked out for years that I just always liked (Lyllian Jean) and I said that he could pick the boy name. Well, he said that he like the name Seth at first, I said no, then he said he really liked the name Wyatt...I absolutely don't like it...every time I say it, it comes out so hick-ish. Wyatt...."Wyatt, what did I tell you, git up ere and brush yur tooth!" Nope, don't like it, but he said, "you got to pick the girl name and you said I could pick the boy name."
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Well, to make a long story short, we compromised and came up with Kyliegh Rae Griswold for the girl, and Aiden Kole Griswold for the boy. Hopefully one of those names will be attached to a baby of ours within the next year or so....*wink wink* I really like the name Kole spelt with a "K" but I was digging the spelling Khole. Matthew doesn't like it, he thinks it looks like K-hole...whatever, Kole it is Lol.
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I love married life, and look forward to parenthood...not today, but eventually. I think we are going to make amazing parents and beautiful babies together. However, we are really working on getting settled down with a house, maybe get out of Ridgecrest and then start working on a family. Im willing to wait till we are 25 to start trying to have a baby...but I dont want to be older then that when we have our first baby.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Easter of 2009

Easter was so much fun this year. Matthew's mom called and asked if we were coming up there to spend time with them for Easter, he said no so she said, "Well, then we are on our way down there." So, Matt and I went to Walgreen's and bought Easter eggs and goodies so that we could have an Easter egg hunt in our apartment for Don and Debi. A few of the eggs had Tums in them, Sudafed, Dayquil, and quarters...the rest had Snicker's and M&Ms in them. We made them little baskets with a chicken that poops out Peanut M&Ms, and a bunny that rides a bike. Needless to say, it was awesome. They loved it. Debi kept stealing eggs from Don's basket when he wasn't looking. It was hilarious.

After they left, Matt and I had our own nontraditional dinner...instead of ham, we had steaks, rice, corn, and salad with some wine...it was so delicious.

Around 7pm, Elizabeth and James came over and we played Cranium. OH MY GOD!!! The best game ever (well along with You Might Be A Redneck If...we played that the night before...Matthew and James both had to play over half the game with a thick hick accent...I was in tears laughing so hard. Somehow it doesn't surprise me how good Matt is at talking that way, he is from Isabella after all. Haha!) Its so fun, and incredibly funny. I had to work Monday morning at 4am and we stayed up playing that game till 10pm, so Matthew and I are dragging this week, but it was so worth it. So, that was our Easter Sunday. Hope everyone else had a great Easter as well.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Jorja's 3rd Birthday

Jorja Lee was born April 9th, 2006 in Ridgecrest Hospital. She was 8 lbs. 2 oz. and 22" long. Now she is 3 years old...Where did the time go? Here are some pictures from her birthday party on Saturday, April 11th, 2009 There were no other kids there, sadly, but I think she still had a good birthday party. Sorry that the pictures are kinda dark and small...my mom tries to be a photographer but she just doesn't quite have it. LOL.
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Mmmm....Strawberry Shortcake....Delicious






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Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday dear Jorja,
Happy birthday to you...

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Me and my baby sister coloring together...

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Artists at work or at play???

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Sidewalk Chalk is a genius idea!!!


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She is getting so big, and she is so smart...

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Matthew's monkey with a banana, that apparently came out of a coconut tree...hahaha.

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Hanging out with Shawn & Diana

Hanging out with Shawn and Diana was a blast. I wish they didn't live so far away. They live in Huntington Beach so we rarely get to see them. But this summer they are staying at the lake while they are out of school. Super stoke about that. We are going to have so much fun at the lake with them. Anyways, they came down and stayed the night last night and we went to Casey's for dinner, delicious. Shawn and Matthew got pretty drunk and Diana and I got nice and buzzed... we played board games and did some Wii bowling. LOL....it was pretty much hilarious. Well, their Spring Break is almost over, so they had to head back up to the lake to study for their mid-terms on Monday, but it was so nice of them to come visit us. We will for sure being doing it again sometime.

The fishing derby is this weekend, so the lake is going to be incredibly packed, but Matthew and I are thinking about going up there anyways...just to spend some time together. We can spend quality time together here, but we want to do something more productive then just sitting at home watching TV and movies and stuff. There are wildflowers everywhere up there, so maybe we can get some good pictures out of the trip. *wink*

Friday, April 3, 2009

$Taxes$

So, I heard that California isn't going to give us a refund check...instead we are getting an IOU. I don't know how true that it, but that's not cool at all. We should be getting a decent amount back considering I had to pay Federal. We are going to use that money to go to Alaska. It was a very close toss up between using it for a down on a house or a trip to see the family in Kodiak Island, Alaska. We choose family. I haven't been to Kodiak yet, and Matthew is so excited to take me there and show me around. So, we are planning a trip there in September most likely. Cant wait. We really want a house, but honestly, spending time with my brother in law and sister in law is way more important...we have a home and its serving its purpose just fine.
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Because of Matthew's stupid and pointless business trip to Maine, I over drafted not once, not twice, but six times over the weekend. Gas, food, things like that that are necessity...yup...screwed us over. So, I have $180 in overdraft fees and my check wasn't as much as I expected, so now we have to take out of our savings, that is supposed to be for a down on a house, to pay rent.
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I wanted to try to see my dad for his birthday this month, I was going to go on my long weekend, but we need new tires for the car, so cant make the trip this year.
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Everything cost money...we all know that, but it just seems like you cant live life the the fullest without money anymore. We aren't quite in a depression, but its getting close. The government really needs to get things figured out and stop letting the economy crash worse. There are way too many people suffering over it. I have to say, we are doing pretty damn good considering the circumstances and I'm beyond thankful for it. We work hard for what we have, and so do a lot of other people. Its unfortunate, a lot of people are unemployed and still trying to support their families with little to no help. Somethings gotta give...things really need to change.

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Whats New Pussy-Cat....

Things are back to normal since I got my l♥ve back. His trip to Maine went as well as can be expected...he made it back to me safely which is the best part of the whole week. Cant imagine him being gone for any longer then that lol. Anyways, everything that he did there he will be repeating here so it was pretty much a waste of the company's time and money, but hey, he got bank overtime out of it and some decent pictures too (you can check them out @ griswoldphotography.blogspot.com). This new contract seems to be a disfunctional mess right now though, so I hope things get a little more settled here soon...but, thankfully he has a job. There are 5 of the 7 people unemployed because the new contractor didnt pick them up...so a paycheck is a paycheck, you just gotta roll with it and dont complain.

Well, I am searching for new and better opprotunities, so hopefully something will come up, if not, same thing goes for me, just gotta roll with it. Im happy to have a job, pays the bills and keeps us from living in our car again *wink* . Im off for the weekend and Matthew is working right now...seems to be a patern when I get on here and write...hahaha. I really should be doing laundry, but I dont feel like it...all the laundry is from Matthews trip and this past week...so basically its more than usual and I dont feel like doing it *giggle* . Just got my nails filled, they have little blue flowers on them, so they look all spring time fun. I l♥ve it. The weather is so great today, its sunny, no wind, about 70 degrees out...Im actually wearing shorts and a tank top. Its officially spring...my second favorate time of the year (first favorate being winter)...well, expect for the bugs. I didnt realize how many bugs come out when it starts warming up until I this job. Its awful...Im terrified of spiders and they are everywhere at work right now...eeekkk!

Tomorrow, I have training from 8am to whatever time it gets over (sucks that on my long weekend they decide to have a mandatory training class), and then Shawn and Diana are coming in town and going to hang out with us for the night and perhaps stay over. Im super excited. They are great people. They are from Hunnington Beach area so we hardly ever get to see them, but when we do, its a blast. I think we are going to go bowling and play some games, drink and have fun. So...yup, thats whats going on here.

Friday, March 27, 2009

.o•° ToMoRrOw °•o.

Tomorrow is the big day when I get my hubby back. Im so excited. Today Im just cleaning and doing everything in my power to stay busy.
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Matthew will be flying out of Portland, Maine at about 6am their time, which is 3am our time. He will land in Washington D.C. and then fly out to L.A. from L.A. he will fly to Bakersfield, and if no layovers be there by approximately 1pm.
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Im so excited. This week has been nothing but stress and hell. But, we survived it, almost 24 hours to go. Then we are going to head to the lake and hangout with his parents for a few hours and play games or something. Its our niece, Maddison's, birthday. I dont know if we will be around for the party, but we definately want to see her and spend time with everyone. We have previous engagements to attend *wink*. Cant wait to see our friends at the brewery.
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Anyway, so today I have to keep really busy so I dont sit there staring at the clock counting down the hours...like they say, if you watch the pot, the water will never boil. Lol, who comes up with sayings like that? Im going to clean the house really well and get the car washed again because a bird pooped on the drivers side door and window when it was parked at my work (stupid birds hehe) and get it vacumned out and ready for my trip tomorrow. YAY!

Thursday, March 26, 2009

American Idol

Okay, well, let me start by saying I was never, and never thought I would be, an American Idol viewer. Lol. But, this season has sucked me in...and let me just tell you, I love love love Allison. That 16 year old girl can SING!!! She is incredible, amazing, fantastic, wonderful, enjoyable...I could go on and on. If she doesn't make it to the end...America is deaf. I like Adam, and I enjoy listening to Megan...they have great voices and will go far in their careers for sure. I would buy their albums...but Allison is the best...Yup, thats all I have to say about it.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Cry me a river...

Had the worst break down...ended up making myself sick today. Really cant afford to take a day off work...but oh well, not much I can do about it.
So, basically, I give props to the woman out there who are home alone for months at a time while their husbands are overseas. I don't know how you do it. I'm having the hardest time just being alone for a week.
I have been holding in my emotions ever since Matthew left, and I have been trying so hard to be strong that I hit that point where you cant hold it any longer. I cried for 3 hours last night. I'm so angry at the situation and I ended up taking it out on Matthew. That is not even what I wanted to do, but its hard. I know this probably sounds really stupid, but I'm just so alone without him, and its hard to keep your mind busy when you have no friends to hang out with, and you have a job that allows you to sit and think...and think...and think....yeah, girls doing too much thinking...really not a good thing. And, Matthew is soo understanding and so supportive, even though I was wrong for being upset with him when it was the situation that is the real problem, he didnt get mad at me...he is so amazing.
Well, I ended up waking up feeling like complete hell. What I would give to have my husband back. I cant even talk to him for more than 10 minutes a day because he is so busy during the day doing training, and then at night by the time I get off work, its 9pm there and he is tired and needs to get some sleep to get up early the next morning again...its like technically he is getting up at 3am to go to work because he is still stuck on western time.
It just isn't fair...its for the best, but its not fair. They sprung this on him last minute, and its something he could be doing here in California, he is going to have to re qualify for the 9mm pistol when he gets back anyway...none of this makes since to us. But that's how they want to do it, guess its what has to be done. Better than being out of a job...I'm trying to be optimistic, but selfishly, I'm just so depressed without him here. We are newly weds...this is our time.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Lonesom for a week.

Well, I took my husband to Bakersfield Airport this morning. Yup...not a fun day. I didn't want to let him go. On our way up there, we decided to take the canyon. Oh my goodness...first of all, we already knew it was supposed to rain here, but it was snowing in Isabella. The canyon was pouring rain, and it was cold and windy as all hell. Craziness! Put it this way, its like 40- degrees today, the past week has been 80-90 degrees. What the hell is going on here? *giggle* Well, anyways, we got to the airport, I cried, said good bye, and went to Panda Express for lunch and World Market to get some wine(which, by the way, I recently found out that the other night, when I got drunk off wine, I had a southern accent...lol...who knew) It is so weird being by myself in Bakersfield. First of all, its not the safest place for a young lady to be wondering alone in, but second, its just not normal for me. I always have Matthew there with me. It really felt wrong to eat at Panda without him. God, 2 hours and I was already dying without him, he isn't going to be back from his training in Maine till next Saturday...what am I to do with myself? So, anyways, I left Bakersfield at 12pm, when I got to the canyon it was pouring rain still and all the sudden it was hailing...hard. People were being stupid on the road, as usual, and then coming out of the canyon and into Isabella, it was just windy, no rain, no snow, no hail. I get just past Isabella's turn off, and heading toward Mt. Mesa its snowing, but not like "aw, snowflakes," like "oh my god the roads are going to be icy and I'm going to die," snow. It was rolling on the road and it was heavy so you could hardly see. On the mountains and the side of the road it looked like white fire going crazy because the powdered snow was blowing around like a tornado in the wind. It was so crazy. I wish I had brought my camera, I would have been able to get some good shots of it, but the next best thing is to describe it. So, now I'm home, I'm lonely and feeling a bit down, but it will be okay. I can do it. Lol, I'm a big girl and its only a week. Just sucks, newly weds shouldn't be so far apart for so long. *pout* But, fortunately, Matthew has a job still. It would be a whole lot worse for us in the future if he was laid of and not picked up by this contractor, so, I cant really complain too much. Its for the best.

Saturday, March 21, 2009

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Instead of deleting my myspace, I simply cleaned it up. I deleted over 100 people, thinking that whoever feels that we are close enough friends and they sincerely want to keep in touch, they would re-add me. Some of the least expected people re-added me, and the ones I thought were my friends havent. One of my friends said that we are good friends and that we will always be friends, but I think she was offended by me deleting her along with everyone else. It wasnt personal, and I sent a message and posted a bulletin out explaining my intentions. I know that she read the message, but there was no reply. Although I deleted her, I deleted a lot of people, and there were only a few people I was hoping would re-add me, she being one of them because I thought we were friends, but when she didnt, I was a little suprised. You definately find out who your friends are.
So, anyways...enough of that...last night, we hung out with the Randies. That was way fun, even though I got drunk by accident. I was drinking Allegro Wine (the best wine ever) and before I knew it, I was drunk. I havent been drunk in almost a year. Kinda feel like a fool concidering I was the only one drunk. LOL. Matthew leaves for Maine tomorrow. *tear* Im so sad about it. Im going to miss him. This will be the second longest time away from eachother in the past 2 years.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

March 19th, 2009



♪♫♪HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU♪♫♪
♪♫♪HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU♪♫♪
♪♫♪HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR MAA-THEEW♪♫♪
♪♫♪HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!♪♫♪
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AWonderfulBirthdayForaWonderfulHusband
I love you.

-Your Wife

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Game Night

Today, Matthew and I played Boggle and Monopoly...now usually, we can play games...any game...EXCEPT Monopoly. Hahaha. So, here is the deal, way back when, we didnt have internet or TV and so we played games and stuff to keep ourselves entertained. It was so much fun, except when we played Monopoly. We mutually decided that Monopoly was a game to stay away from if we wanted our relationship to last. (hahaha, not that we would end it over a game, but you know what I mean). Well, today, we played Monopoly. It was fun, we played it and no one get mad, we didnt really finish, because lets face it, the game lasts an eternity. But we played for a good 1.5 hours. We are about to go to the store to get Turbo Tax and a few other things, we were going to get Taboo or Password, or some game like that, but Randi has Apples to Apples and it going to bring that over to play tonight. My mother in law is going to let us have her Password game and Pictionary. Anyway, I cant wait for tonight. The Randies are seriously the best couple in this town. They are honest down to earth people. I have been feeling down the past two days, but I think game night is just what I need.

Still can't believe it

All week I was waiting for my new driver's license to come in the mail...I couldn't figure out what was taking so long...and then while organizing some mail that came in throughout the week, I found it. We went to all the utility places to get my name changed on the accounts and add Matthew to them. Its still so surreal...we are married...I'm his wife...he is my husband. Sometimes it just hits me with butterflies and I feel so giddy. So, its official everywhere, I'm Lisa Jean Griswold. HURRAY!!! I love being his wifey.
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Friday, March 13, 2009

CONGRATULATIONS YOU TWO

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I'm not even joking...this is Randi and Randy. They are the cutest couple (besides me and Matthew *wink*) that I know.
They met as neighbors. She was having problems with her swamp cooler and he happened to be the handy man to the rescue. They made their fence in the back yard like a hall way to each others apartments. They both have pugs, she has the female and he has the male. LOL, yeah, most epic relationship I have ever heard of and I love it. Whenever Matt and I hang out with them, its like watching a movie about ourselves as a couple (without the crazy names and story). They are a lot like us in the way they interact with each other and the things they do for fun, its pretty much a mirror image of our lives.
Well, they recently got engaged, New Years Eve going into 2009. Randi thinks that sounds cliche because its "New Years" lol, but it was kind of an accident. They were in Cambria, and Randi thought that it would be cool for the two of them to go to dinner and then come back to the hotel and hang out with Beth and Casey (another adorable couple) and he had plans to propose, so that was as good of time as any.
They are planning to be wed in November of 2009. Couldn't be more happy. They are an amazing couple, and I see them living a long happy marriage together. They are two different souls joining as one perfect life.
Congratulations Randi & Randy!
I love you guys.

A Life Without Him

So, today it really sunk in that I have no life without Matthew. I love my husband to death, but any couple knows that some time apart is healthy.
Matthew's hobby is to play Frisbee Golf (aka Frolf) with his buddies. When he is doing that every Saturday and occasionally in between, or he is at work and I'm at home, I find myself cleaning, running arons, or playing on the computer. I don't have any hobbies, because honestly there isn't much to do in the Crest unless your an alcoholic or you have friends.
Yes, of course I have friends, but they aren't very reliable friends, they are more like acquaintances. Matthew and I have decided that this is just how Ridgecrest people are. Most of them will make plans with me just to turn around and break them, they have more drama than a soap opera, and they go to the bar and drink like camels drink water. My good friends either don't live here anymore or are friends from Isabella that I met through Matthew, the ones who moved are smart and got out while they could. Its kind of depressing when I sit down and have the time to actually think about it. I really hate living in this town. There is nothing really keeping us here except jobs, which mine is transferable. What are we doing trying to buy a house in this crap hole we call home. I love our apartment, and I am fairly happy with my job. I know I would be happy anywhere with Matthew, but when he is off doing his thing, I feel that I have nothing. I'm not happy with Ridgecrest...I haven't been for quite sometime. We need to get out of this black hole once and for all. I think I'm going to look further into it. I know that there are some military bases in Oregon and Washington that may be transferable with my job, however, how do you make such a move? My job most likely wouldn't pay for us to move...his job is going through some changes that leave us blind to the future. I'm one for planning out the future, even if it doesn't work out the way I planned, at least I have an idea of what could happen, or a goal in mind....SOMETHING. I dont know what to do anymore...this town depresses me sometimes.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Still just a dream

We went to Remax and talked with a man named Dean about financing for a new house. He took down our information and said that on Monday, he would run our credit and let us know what we were pre-approved for. He then took us to Terry, a Realtor, and we talked houses with her. She is absolutely amazing. I know that it is a Realtors job to make people a satisfied customer because they are in for the money, but there is something about her personality that makes me trust her more than I would with any other Realtor.
Anyway, we looked at some homes online and wrote down the addresses for the ones we were most interested in. Sunday, we went with her to look at those homes. We were very interested in the one on Weiman. It needs a little work, but we could see ourselves owning it and fixing it up. Still not knowing what we were pre-approved for, we didn't want to get our hearts set just yet, and we figured, it doesn't hurt to keep looking around.
Monday, while I was at work, I got a call from Terry. She said that she found a house that had just gone on the market and she thought it was perfect for us. Fit our style and was amazing. She said that if we wanted to look at it when I got off work, we were more than welcome to. When I asked how much it was, she said that it is $167,500. That's $7,000 if not more than we were wanting to spend. However, we found out only a few hours later, that we were pre-approved for $170,000. SWEET! Then this house is affordable, we just have to come up with the down payment, which we were also approved for the FHA loan, meaning that the down was only going to be 3.5%. With closing costs this would amount to approximately $7,800. We checked out the house and absolutely fell in love with it. This house is perfect, amazing, wonderful...oh my god, we want this house so bad. So, we called our parents to discuss help options. They were going to see what they could do, but then we talked to Dean about getting our credit scores printed out so that we could shop around for a good deal with financers. He decided then to tell us that we aren't approved for $170,000 he was trying to get the loan officers to use only my credit score, but they wouldn't go for it because Matt and I are married and they take the lowest score of the couple...which is Matthews. So, he basically lied to us by telling us that that was what we were eligible for. What an ass hole. LOL. So, Matt had an appointment to talk to Guild Financer's, Bill Moew, and he got a lot of useful information from him. Basically, we need 6 months to get our credit scores up to where we want it. My credit is really decent, but we can always make it better, and Matthew's credit need improvement, but wont take a whole lot of effort. SO...now that we have ideas of what we need to do, we have a goal set in mind and will be working on saving money for a hefty down payment and better credit scores...in the mean time, the house of our dreams will have to stay just a dream, because chances are that it will sell between now and the next 6 months. Sadly, that's the reality of it, but it is kind of a steal in my mind. Its about 1700 sq. ft. living space, 3 bedrooms, 2 bath, 1 den, fireplace, built in pool, fire pit in the back yard, landscaping is wonderful, huge kitchen with all appliances, decent floors, and a beautiful floor plan. This house could probably be listed at $200,000 with the possibility of getting $180,000 out of it...they are selling it for under $170,000. But, if it is meant to be, then it will still be there when we are ready to buy. Here is to hoping. LOL. We have a place to live in, its affordable, and we have made it our home even if we don't get the opportunity of owning it. So, we are thankful for what we have, and the future will surely bring better and more promising opportunities. Who knows, maybe we aren't meant to buy a home in Ridgecrest, maybe we are meant to move to Washington or Oregon...hehe, time will tell.

Saturday, March 7, 2009

My Most Favorite Poems in the World

I will never let u fall,
I'm holding on so tight,
To you my sweet angel,
On this warm summer night,
The sky it shines so clear,
Through the depths of those eyes,
Your a gift from the heavens,
The answer to all my cries.
º¤ Matthew A. Griswold 7/30/2007 ¤º
This poem is about our first date...
I have found the one that I want
to spend the rest of my life with.
When spring comes I want to be the one
next to you laying in a field of flowers,
when summer comes I want to be the one
walking by your side on the beach,
when fall comes I want to be the one
sitting by your side watching the leaves change,
and when winter comes I want to be the one
snuggled up next to you by the fire.
º¤ Matthew A. Griswold 8/17/2007 ¤º
I read this to him at our wedding...

Taco Bowl Receipt

Quick and Easy
4 Servings
1 bag of tortilla chips
3 tablespoons EVOO (extra-virgin olive oil)
2 pounds of ground been
2 jalapeno peppers, seeded and finely chopped
2 medium onions, chopped
3-4 garlic cloves, chopped
1 1/2 tablespoons ground cumin, a round palmful
1 1/2 tablespoons chili powder, a round palmful
coarse salt and black pepper
2 firm Hass avocados
4 plum tomatoes, seeded and chopped
a handful of fresh cilantro leaves, chopped
juice of one lemon
4 cups shredded Monterrey Jack or sharp cheddar cheese
Lightly crush the chips. Heat a large nonstick skillet over medium to high heat. Add 2 tablespoons of the EVOO, twice around the pan. Add the beef to the skillet and brown and crumble it for 5 minutes To the browned mean add half the chopped jalapeno, three fourths of the chopped onions, and all the garlic. Season the meat with the cumin, chili powder, and salt and pepper. Cook them together for 5 minutes more, then add about a cup of water and reduce heat to low. Add salt to taste.
Halve and separate the avocados, and remove the pit. Dice the avocado while still in the skin, scoop out the dices into a bowl. Combine tomatoes, remaining onion, jalapenos, and the cilantro gently with the avocado and dress the salad with the lemon juice, the remaining tablespoon of EVOO and salt to taste.
Layer a handful or two of the chips into soup or chili bowls and top them with a handful of cheese. Fill the bowls with taco meat and top with more cheese, then mound some salad on the top and its ready to serve.

Thinking & Waiting

So, I'm definitely digging the blogging thing. Its like having a diary that anyone can read...kinda defeats the purpose of a diary, haha, but its a lot of fun. I don't know if anyone even reads it or will read it, but I enjoy making it pretty and putting my thoughts down. I'm just bored at the moment, doing laundry. My husband is on his way to Bakersfield, so I'm just trying to keep busy.
As for the update on buying the house a few doors down from my mothers, not going to be able to buy that one. The owner's are not able to keep the house, they are already falling behind on the mortgage payments so they want to sell it out right...no options and they are putting it on the market with in the next week hoping to sell it immediately, they cant hold it for a few months and we wont have the money for a down for at least a few months. However, tomorrow we are going to go look at a few houses. We went to Remax yesterday and let me tell you what...they are amazing. They are so professional, helpful, and personable. We spoke with Terry, she found a few houses in our price range that are worth taking a look at. Basically, all we have to do is come up with the down payment and then we will be on our way. That should only take us about 3-4 months. However, we can start buying a house in about 2 months because then we can just put $1,000 towards it to hold it until it hits escrow. So, thank god we stopped by Remax, we would have never thought that we could purchase a house so soon. It would figure though, our neighbors that we don't care for so much is moving...maybe our complex will be quieter...then again, could be worse...either way we would really like to buy a house and have something we can call our own. We want to have the investment, not to mention be able to do as we please with it. We want to have a pet so bad, but unfortunately we cant have any in this town house. So, wish us luck everyone...I think things will work out just fine. The way we see it is if we don't get a house right away, better options will arise and we will find the house of our dreams and have an even larger amount set aside for the down. Id say that we are pretty smart individuals. ;)

Friday, March 6, 2009

Our Special Dates


March 19th, 1985 Matthew's Birthday
February 7th, 1986 Lisa's Birthday

June 24th, 2007 First Date and Kiss
August 8th, 2008 Engaged

January 24th, 2009 Married

He makes me smile when Im sad, laugh even when I dont want to, cry when Im happy, and to this very day...he still gives me butterflies. Everything in the life has a purpose, although we may not understand why things happen the way that they do, they do happen and everything seems to be exactly how it should be. Im not perfect, I never claim to be, but in his eyes Im perfect for him, and my heart beats a strong & steady beat because of him. We are two souls bonded as one. He is my everything. I never have, and never will, in all my life, take him for granted. I dont know if he quite understands just how much he means to me. I wake up every morning still amazed at how lucky I am. I am the one that gets to wake up and look at that face of an angel, I get to look into his eyes and without even a whisper we say, "I love you." Every season is beautiful because I have him there to enjoy the changes with me. I used to hate the winter because it was cold and dead, now I look at it in a totally different aspect...its warm when I am by a fire with him under the blankets, its not dead at all, actually its a begining...those flowers and trees are just sleeping until the spring comes around and we can watch them come back full and lush together. These are our special dates for now...someday we will have added to this list. Someday we will bring beautiful children into this crazy world, and together we will get them ready for life on their own. We will prepare them to be strong yet sensitive so that they can have what we have together. Thats my next mission in life...I dont think this challenge will be too much for me, my first mission was to find someone I wanted to spend my life with and love and be loved forever. Mission accomplished...
I love you Matthew.
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Saturday, February 28, 2009

My Friend...



Happy Birthday
Aimee Sue...
I miss you girlie!